Zamilování do terapeuta: Co to je a jak s tím pracovat

When you start feeling something deeper than gratitude toward your therapist, you’re not broken—you’re human. This feeling is called přenos, psychologický jev, kdy klient přenáší pocity z dřívějších vztahů na terapeuta. Also known as transference, it’s not a mistake, a weakness, or something to hide. It’s one of the most important tools in therapy. Many people feel drawn to their therapist—admire their calm, crave their attention, or even fall in love. That doesn’t mean you’re weird. It means your brain is trying to heal.

Therapy isn’t friendship, but it’s also not cold professionalism. It’s a space where old wounds get stirred up—and sometimes, the person who helps you feel safe starts to look like the person you always wished would. Maybe your therapist reminds you of a parent who listened, or a partner who never left. Maybe they’re just kind in a world that rarely is. Your heart responds. That’s normal. What’s not normal is pretending it didn’t happen. Good therapists are trained to recognize this. They don’t judge you for it. They use it. The moment you say, "I think I’m falling for you," the real work begins. That’s when buried feelings about abandonment, rejection, or worthiness finally get air.

This isn’t about romance. It’s about understanding why you need someone to be perfect. Why you fear being seen. Why you think love means being saved. terapeutický vztah, bezpečný a omezený prostor, kde se dějí hluboké změny is the only place where this can be explored without consequences. If you’ve ever felt guilty for caring too much, you’re not alone. Studies show over 70% of clients experience strong emotional reactions to their therapist at some point. The ones who get better? The ones who talk about it. Not the ones who quit because they felt ashamed.

What you’ll find in the posts below isn’t theory. It’s real talk from people who’ve been there. You’ll read about how therapists handle this without crossing lines, how to tell if your feelings are healthy or dangerous, and why some people stay stuck because they never dared to say what they felt. You’ll also find advice on how to spot a therapist who knows how to guide you through this—not avoid it. This isn’t a taboo. It’s a turning point. And you don’t have to face it alone.